As previously stated you are very entitled to your own opinion, I personally have never played Eternion and the bit of Eternian I did play I didn't enjoy it. My issue with it is the staff members that I've chatted with or see interacting with players seemed more immature, however. There are more mature staff members on the Eternian side of Icecold-wow. Then on the other side of the coin, there is Reaper. As Dazanley previous stated
Reaper is the MAIN Icecold-wow server. It was the Realm the server started off with, and puts more of it's work and time into. However, there are some issues with it as well just like any server. It just so happens it's a server full of players who have PRIDE for the server, the people here (who are here for more than a month) come to love the server and have hard times leaving, go ahead and look through the General thread for posts of those who are "quitting" the server and such. Icecold-wow is more than a server at this point, which you don't seem to understand (but then again, you do quick reviews based on your own experiences, I understand where you are comming from).
Icecold-wow both Reaper and Eternian are a family, not a server. We have pride, we have bonds. We're here because we love it.